MY MISTAKE...
It's easy to see people as one dimensional without respecting every atom of life they have had before meeting them. Stress, ignorance and malice all contribute to how badly people are treated at times. A woman at the Mall was in such a hurry to get to the coffee counter she pushed past me imperiously snorting "excuse me" as she went. Does that pass for 'big egos at dawn' that passes these days for existential chic? You know what I mean: "me and my dignity and self-possession at all costs." I see 'em every day, day in day out - the jolly old high everyone's got stuck on in this start of the 21st century. It deserves scorn godammit!
I treat people like this at times, when I'm tired or low, I'm no angel - it was worse in my last job - at times I hit the kids or kicked the dog. That's stopped and it got stopped deliberately because I knew it was happening and why - because of my standard of living goading me to believe my family only needed 'it' to be happy - now it's gone (all but something half decent still) I need to heal from the self abuse of abusing others and grow taller under the sun in the sky.
I listen deliberately to what is said around me and avoid selfish or nasty people who lack goodness. I can cry at the picture of a dog being tortured ( see link to Ashram website) because I must have such a tendency because I am human and humans can do that. I cried because people are duplicitous and got called mad. When I hold up a mirror to this silly Race, I see me.